Good Friday everyone! What are you doing this weekend? Joanie is having her first pajamas tonight, something she has been waiting for for years and we promised that it could happen once she turns five, and then once she is fully vaccinated, and then once the wave of ‘Omicron, and now, finally, it’s time. Tomorrow I think we’re going to skate on ice. I have a couple of books on the library shelf that I need to pick up before I go to the bus stop in an hour, and I look forward to trying a new recipe I saw on Instagram that sounded ok.
I hope you have a great weekend, and here are some links you might like:
15 lessons for lasting love
As a 45-year-old woman, now firmly in the middle-aged field, I have been drawn to and read very recently about the Middle Ages, especially in the context of friendships, relationships, and making sense in the Middle Ages. life (and how the ways of finding meaning seem to change during this stage). This article from The Atlantic focuses on friendships, and especially middle-aged friendships: the challenge of making and maintaining friends and how the importance of friendships, as much as at this stage in life, changes a bit. Anyway, at least I didn’t go down without explaining myself first.
It is your friends who break your heart: the older we get, the more we need our friends, and the harder it is to keep them.
Related: I thought we’d be friends forever. How I finally accepted that it was over
Another with a middle-aged subject, but in terms of career: at 53, Bucking the Great Resignation: after being scammed for some savings, Martha Bayne rethinks the Gen X playbook in terms of job and financial security.
And I guess that’s middle-aged, too. Emma Thompson about living in a woman’s body: my daughter is stepping on life, my mother is fragile and I’m in balance between
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