Smash, snail, hoochie coo, schtupping, bumpin ‘uglies, deboning, bring someone to town, to know someone in the biblical sense, the beast with two backs, riding the Bologna pony … let’s hunt! Today is Valentine’s Day and I’ve been booked for a week with some guys getting dressed. Some are worried about whether they like a girl or not, some are worried about how to ask for a date, but most are worried about how the night will end. It makes sense … Valentine’s Day is for lovers. The origins of the festival go back to the ancient Roman festival of Lupercalia, which celebrated the arrival of spring and included fertility rites and the couple of men and women by lot. Fortunately, modern Romeo does not have to rely on the opportunity to seal the deal. So let’s take a look at how to know if you feel like D and how to make her smile happily.
There’s no surprise here: when it comes to expressing interest, many women don’t use their words. It is a by-product of socialization; Do you know the difference between June Cleaver and Gal Gadot? 50 damn years. The phenomenon of women being adventurous sex creatures is fairly new. That doesn’t mean they won’t tell you what they want. Just learn to speak their language, and a woman’s mother tongue is body language. This seems like a challenge for the modern gentleman, and I understand why. According to Consumers Advocate, 40% of couples are online. Online dating is great (and I’m not just saying that because it’s my way of life), but moving from texting to reading non-verbal cues the first time you meet someone in person can be a little daunting. Luckily for you, you have me by your side.
If he leans toward you during the conversation, plays with his hair, exposes his wrists, maintains prolonged eye contact (do yourself a favor and Google “sex eyes”), finds a way to touch you, plays with the stem of his glass of wine, straw, or other cutlery in a vaguely phallic form: he is trying to show you that he is interested. On the other hand, if you repeatedly look at the phone, constantly look around the room, cross your arms over your chest, or walk away from you, it probably won’t happen, man. When you learn to decode your body language, you can read it like a book.
If you use his words, make sure you listen to him. When the conversation turns into a flirtatious joke, she’s interested. If there’s a time when the joke turns into an almost palpable sexual tension, don’t look away, go up so high with it. These are the first stages of the previous games, she is feeling you and exploring your sexual connection. Panic is your worst enemy in this situation because it inhibits your ability to relate to it in a real way. As the date draws to a close, don’t let your nerves get in the way, because she’ll subtly show you what she wants, and if you’re stuck in your head, you’ll miss it. A woman who plans to return home alone after your date will move on purpose. She will probably take the keys out of her bag as she goes to the car, may ring a few times to indicate that she is tired, or look at the phone to indicate that she has other plans. If she is waiting for you to make a move, she will slow down, turn her body toward you, and give you time to bend over and kiss. If you are still unsure, approach her. If you’re not interested, you’ll probably take a step back. If she’s interested, she’ll probably look at you or get closer. Start slowly and move upwards: sticking your tongue in your throat is usually not a good move for the first kiss of the night. Be sensual, be playful, listen to her physically. Think of kisses as a dance – take the initiative but be attentive to your partner.
The kiss is amazing, you pull away, you look her in the eye and you feel the magic in the air. Now is the time. How do you ask for the night to continue? “I am having so much fun. Would you like to come back to my house for a drink? ”You can also ask him to come back to your place to watch a movie, pet your dog, or look at your Nicolas Cage autograph. He’s not saying yes to the drink, he’s saying yes to spending time alone with you. Speak in the present, if you say you had a good time, you’re done dating. Instead, it offers a fun continuation of what has already been a lovely evening. Most women who agree to return to your site have already decided or are actively considering having sex with you. At the very least, she’s interested in spending time alone with you, which means she likes and trusts you. Nice man.
Over the next few weeks I will be reviewing the other three parts of this series of blogs: previous games, consent, and the big word S (fuck). If you need help creating your dating profiles, creating chemistry, reading body language, or would like to get a gift card for a friend, give me a call.
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