Is it moving too fast? Can you control the pace of a relationship?
You’ve known this guy for fourteen days. Every day he sends text messages, makes future appointments, and even talks about a trip to Italy. You’ve already met her kids and she worries that it’s a little too early for her to meet yours.
You like. You think. But it is moving too fast in your opinion.
What are you doing?
This is what most women do and why their new relationship later fails. They allow a man to dictate the pace of the relationship.
Unfortunately, the mouth of men is ahead of their intentions.
I myself am guilty of this. I think I really like a woman, so I put everything in it. Then all of a sudden, I realize I’m heading for a serious relationship with someone I barely know. Deep down, I know I’ve been selling mine better me and he has never seen it side not so big of me.
Men get scared and scared because it’s easier than going back from the trip to Italy. It happens all the time.
It is not your fault. Your only mistake is to let him determine the pace of a relationship because you like him and you’re happy to date a boy.
The person who controls the pace of the relationship becomes the attractor. If you stop him, he will be loved more because you have the power. You become a challenge and, as you know, men are competitors who strive to win your love.
Controlling the pace of a relationship benefits you exponentially. It also becomes a test for him. If you slow things down and he gets mad at you, you just save yourself months, maybe years, of going out with a possible headache!
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