This may seem old-fashioned, but this white and gold dress that looks blue is still a controversy for some people.
I don’t usually bend over women’s fashion. After all, that it is not exactly a subject that I am deeply passionate about.
And I never would have imagined that I would be locked in a heated debate with a bunch of friends about the color of a stupid dress.
However, everything changed when a friend of mine sent me this story. Too bad I didn’t know it would be the worse decision I would make today.
There are things that cannot be invisible, and this is one of them. Who would have thought that a seemingly innocent piece of clothing could wreak so much havoc?
(Again, maybe it’s just a well-planned viral marketing campaign to sell lots of clothes.)
Apparently, the rest of the world (as you will read in the article) also lost their time and energy with this, which is a kind of sad really.
Not to get serious, but all I could think about was, “Right now, the people of the world are literally dying of war and starvation … and are we angry at a damn dress?”
More than anything, it was the pettiness of everything that bothered me.
Come to think of it, most arguments start with the simplest things (like fashion), then to climb When emotions enter the image. It makes an unproductive mess that annoys everyone.
When was the last time you met in a small discussion with someone, like your partner, for example?
How feel about this after?
To avoid being caught up in a petty fight with your partner, the trick is line reading. Sometimes there are more arguments than what you see on the surface.
Picture this: one day your husband says, “Hey, this new spy movie is playing today.”
Then he replied, “Hey, I don’t really like these things about James Bond.”
Then he says, “Well, who fell for your coffee? I’m just saying. ”
Feeling attacked, you come back with, “My coffee is fine. Are you what a thrill of a stupid movie. “
Then your husband shoots, “Sure, *I am* the grumpy one. So ask me for trying to talk! “
We freeze this hypothetical scenario and press rewindwould we
It may seem like your husband only likes spy movies, but you can also tell he was trying make an offer to get your attention.
Besides, what a man lost of your comment (about not caring about “those James Bond stuff”) was you wanted to have a conversation with him, NOT on the given topic.
Even if it wasn’t your intention, he thought you were defeating his talk attempt. That’s why he made that mocking revolt about you being rude and not caring about him.
Feeling hurt, things got even worse after he was told he was upset about a lot.
Finally, he said (in a very abrasive way) what he really wanted: to make conversation.
Of course, it is much easier to have one knees reaction, but you better read on between the lines BEFORE you do anything else.
So the key to spreading a situation like this comes down to a couple of things: seeing the situation as it is and responding appropriately.
Ask yourself, “What’s missing from this image?”
For example, if you weren’t interested in spy movies, you could offer another topic: “Hmm, I don’t really like these things about James Bond, but the trailer for this new comedy sounds pretty funny!”
In the meantime, your boyfriend also had a chance to change gear However to explode.
Could he have said, “Well, are there any other good movies coming out?” or something like, “Well, did you want to see another movie?”
That would put you both on the same page, wouldn’t it?
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– Carlos Cavallo
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