How to get a girl No Like you
I really like this girl but she didn’t give me her number on the two occasions I met her personally. Since I’m the determined guy, I asked my friends to give me their number.
However, my first call ended with her saying, “I don’t have time to talk to you.”
However, I insisted, so I’ve been talking to her on WhatsApp since December last year. I think I’ve started contacting her because she’s answering my posts now, but she won’t answer any personal questions yet!
That’s why I can’t find a common interest among us that I can take advantage of. I’m going crazy.
Can you tell me what’s going on in women’s minds? I’ve been looking for tips online because I love challenges and I don’t want to give up on this one, but I admit I’m starting to wonder if you think I’m pushing it to come out with me.
What is your opinion on this? How do I deal with it? Do you have any similar experiences that could relate to me? –
-Persistent to WhatsApp
Hello, persistent on Whatsapp,
Dating and despair are not a good combination. It’s great appointment error they make a lot of guys.
I would suggest leaving her alone because it is obvious that she is not interested. In fact, what you are doing is an insured way make a girl dislike you.
Right now you’re wasting your time and mental energy, and you’re on the verge of chasing it. When a girl doesn’t give you her phone number, don’t run back and get it from her friends.
You’re in love with her because you have no other choice.
A man with options does not waste time chasing a girl who does not care because he knows that there will be another, and another, and another girl who will go out with him.
The obsession with a woman is never flattering.
It shows a lot of need and despair, and these are qualities that drive women away. It makes you feel like you have nothing else, both personally and professionally. It’s exactly the opposite of what you want to do to attract high quality women.
Here’s how to fix your problem:
- Stop contacting this girl.
- Read about meeting women.
- If you want personal help, you can learn faster if you hire a coach.
- Go out and apply what you’ve learned and talk to women. Repeat.
Other things you should do:
Take care of your professional life: Have you always dreamed of starting a business? Do it. Do you want a better career? Get training. Do you want an increase or promotion? Find out how to make it possible.
Focus on social skills and building trust: You will reap many more benefits in the long run by developing your social skills (conversation starters, leading conversations, establishing connections, creating attraction, etc.) and confidence (ability to act despite fear, courage, balls, social competence, etc.). etc.) of what you will never do by chasing a girl.
Social skills and confidence will help you professionally and personally, both in romantic relationships and in friendships.
A man who has things in his life is far away more attractive to women that a boy who obsesses a woman and he chases after her non-stop even though he has already given her a firm “no.”
This type of guy also has a demand for women to see that he is wanted by other women, and this creates scarcity, which increases the value. It is a basic economy.
A boy that no one wants is available at any time, is not scarce and has no relational value. If no one else wants you, why should she?
If you want to know how to get a girl to like you, build your value as a man for yourself and women will start to notice you.
It is a side effect of creating your ideal life, but it should not be your main goal. Don’t do everything for women or you’ll be caught in the trap of trying to impress other people, which is usually the opposite of making women notice you.
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