Let me show you how to find the perfect man …
And I will try to do that in the 5 minutes it takes to read this.
So you’ve dated him and you’re done counting the minutes until you go out with this promising guy.
But there is this annoying thought in the back of your mind:
“How do I know if it’s going to be worth it or go out like the other guys I’ve met?”
Appointments can definitely be on lucky draw kind of a deal, and sometimes you don’t know what you’re up to.
Unless, of course, you can quickly figure out what your intentions are.
Wouldn’t it be great if you could tell right away if it’s one? quality guy who is at least interested to stay if there is chemistry?
It wouldn’t be great if you could save yourself a lot of pain and lost time upon detecting them red flags Right Now?
Well, all that is possible. There is an art to reading your character, but that it is not as complicated as you can think.
Why the boys lie
But first, we need to know what’s going on the head of a boy. You see, men are determined to impress their date, even that means beautifying a little, or in some cases, A LOT.
But that is just the nature of the beast. Men want you to think they are great, tough and overall awesome boy to have around.
Actually, of course, no one can be the perfect match.
When the unattractive side of his personality comes to light, it can be a disappointment to see that he is not at all up to the hype.
But this is one normal part of appointments.
What you really need to keep in mind is the guys who will do it roundly lie about something you could affect your decision to keep watching it or not.
And in these situations, it is in your best interest to detect them business breakers before getting too far with him.
Otherwise, you will feel as if the wool has been thrown at your eyes, leaving you angry and heartbroken.
Okay, here are two basic possibilities.
- It could be one really nice guy and you just want it to be as close as possible.
- Or it could be until nothing good and hide something that could seriously affect your future with it.
Whatever it is, you have to approach it like a deer. If he knows you’re looking for clues, he might get angry and withdraw.
Also, a guy with not so pleasant intentions he might know what’s going on and give you the “right” answers, which completely nullifies the purpose of asking him about his qualities.
For example, you can’t tell
“You’re not going to be one of those guys who says it’s about engagement and then he’ll walk out the door a few months later, won’t you?”
When you ask him that, he will probably have it there is no choice but a for honey in your ear so that you do not reject it.
Discovering the Truth
So how do you choose your brain without making any warning bells ring in your head?
First, avoid a hotline.
A better way would be to put your thoughts in a casual way vital things you want to know, such as deception, long-term commitment, or jealousy.
To further your focus subtleraises the issue through a story involving someone better known, such as a friend or family member.
For example, talk about a problem with your co-worker:
“Oh, speaking of work, I suddenly remembered Teresa, my co-worker who hadn’t shown up for a week. Apparently, her boyfriend broke up with her because she “flirts too much” with her friends. We’re not very close, but I feel a little bad for her because she’s not the type to cheat.
“Are most boys threatened by their girlfriend’s friends? Or is jealousy in men more of an exception than a rule?”
Okay so “most guys”Is really just a way to ask him what he think about the topic. Now, just decode your answer.
Let’s say you respond with something like:
“Hmm, I don’t think most guys are a monster like him. I mean, any reasonable man wouldn’t come out like that unless there was a valid reason.”
In this example, you can now say which side of the topic it falls on even if it doesn’t speak directly to itself. Chances are this guy isn’t the type to try control the people his girlfriend deals with on a daily basis.
But you would have a completely different picture if I told you:
“Well, I’d say a lot of men wouldn’t appreciate their partner talking to weird guys they haven’t met. I mean, a reasonable guy would trust his girlfriend, but not necessarily the people around him.”
In that case, you may want to think twice about seeing it in the long run if you have a problem with your friends.
Whatever your answer, you will be able to get to the bottom of the truth even if it doesn’t really speak for itself.
What do you think about what other boys think it is already a good reflection of what you would do in the same situation.
However, I don’t want you to think you’re shooting at a fast about him. You are only finding out early on whether you are compatible or not.
It’s the same as asking for a job. No company will only hire the next man they talk to.
Likewise, you need to know if you will added value in your life or create unnecessary drama.
After all, you’d better not realize too late that you’re not suitable for each other after all.
In the end, you’ll make the most of your time by focusing on a guy you might have healthy relationship with.
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Yours, in Perfect Passion,
– Carlos Cavallo
UPDATED ON 9/29/2021
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