So I got a call from a guy who was really interested in a girl. She said she liked him a lot and wanted to learn how to connect with her. Then I asked her how she met this girl, and that was the problem because she had never really met him before. He had never spoken to her. They had no connection. Worse, he found her on social media.
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And to complicate matters further, he went all the way across the country, across the country, literally across the country. Canada is a great country.
Now, even though he had never met her, he had never spoken to her, and they were all the way to opposite ends of the country, for some reason he said he liked her very much and wanted to learn how to connect with her. Does that make sense?
In this post you will learn:
- Why social media keeps you from dating
- How to meet women off social media
- What is the best way to start talking to people and develop social skills?
This is really the result of not having options. A boy with options, who has dates will not fall in love with a girl on social media, at the other end of the country, or even in the city itself, no matter what.
This is just an image you see on social media. You really don’t know who this person is. And some guys fall in love with an image and think they know the story of the girl’s life because of the things she posts, which are all carefully cured.
But the reality is that you can’t meet anyone on social media, it’s just not the reality. So, are you following a girl right now on social media that you think you like and want to connect with? Do not do it! Because it doesn’t work, usually.
“So you’re saying there might be a chance?” Just like winning the lottery, there are chances for anything. And I’ve heard of people connecting to social media before. It happens, but it is not predictable.
Your odds are so low. You’ll just mingle with an ocean of guys on social media sending girls saying, “Hey, what’s up?”, And a bunch of other really bad messages, trying to connect with them and not receive them. wherever.
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Or commenting on her posts on social media and saying how beautiful they are, putting hearts or likes or whatever, all that sort of thing in hopes of being noticed by her, which will never happen.
Dating should be predictable once you learn the skills involved and build the confidence you need to really talk to women. Throwing dice and sending messages to people on social media is, at best, very difficult, and extremely unpredictable.
Chances are, if anything ever happens, it will be like winning the lottery. So instead of playing the social media lottery and trying to meet women that way, here’s what to do, if you really want to connect with beautiful women and get the kind of relationship you deserve.
The first is obviously to focus on local girls. Don’t try to meet someone across the country. Logistically, it makes no sense, and it only adds all sorts of complications when trying to connect with someone.
If your city is really small, you’ll probably have to drive somewhere else. But there will probably be local cities around, perhaps with a few exceptions.
Now the important thing here is to really start conversations with people. It’s so simple, but so overlooked when guys try to figure out how to meet women.
In fact, you have to go talk to them. There are different ways to do this, but most importantly, focus on natural situations. You could be in the cafeteria, go grocery shopping or even walk down the street. Learn to talk to people in these situations.
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Now, a very easy way to get started is to just talk to everyone, not just talk to attractive women. Start being more social in general and this will give you more opportunities, more confidence and social skills so that you can connect with more people and especially with more women with whom you want to talk and go out.
Now, don’t try to be smart or witty here. Just look for the simplest one in front of you and make the simplest comment available.
That’s really all you need to start a conversation with someone. You don’t have to go anywhere, but you have to get used to talking to people in different situations.
It could be a comment about time, it could be a comment about a gem. It can be a product that you are looking at or that you are looking at, just something in your environment that is relevant.
Also, focus on your personal development. Now, starting conversations with random strangers is definitely a personal development, but look at other areas of life where you may be weak. Are you fit, comfortable with your body? Are you healthy
If you are missing out on any of these areas, it will affect your confidence and ability to talk to attractive women. You have to take care of yourself before anyone else is interested in you.
Also, focus on your experience. Go out and learn interesting things, learn new things, go to new places, learn new languages. The more experiences and skills you have, the more interesting you will be and the easier it will be to talk to other people.
So, to sum it up, stay local, focus on the people in your local area, not on social media or in any other city. Start conversations with everyone around you, just start being more social.
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It will be uncomfortable at first, but over time you will feel more secure. And it also starts to focus on getting more interesting and more skillful experiences, and more knowledge so that you can relate to other people more easily and have better conversations. To summarize it in just a few steps, remember the following:
- Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, especially if that basket is a social media attraction.
- Try meeting women outside of social media, in real life, and in your area
- Make it simple
- Work to improve the weak areas of your life
- Confidence above comfort
If you have any questions, positive success stories after this post, or even past cases where you mustered the courage to get over those nerves, let me know in the comments below.
Until next time, conquer and win.
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