Have you ever wondered how you like men?
Let me show you a simple step.
You’ve probably heard the saying first seconds to know someone are the most crucial. If you want to get on the radar of this handsome guy in a good way, you have to highlight from the beginning.
But there is one great obstacle to be liked you have to overcome, however.
Somehow, everyday life it has disrupted the dynamics of human interaction, making it more difficult for people to connect.
Just think about what it’s like to be in a crowded public area, such as a mall or airport. The people in these places are too busy o too defensive to be bothered by other people.
Engaging in a conversation seems to be the hardest thing to do because it can be intimidating to interrupt a stranger.
Women who stop to start a conversation often think to themselves, “He looks good, but I don’t want to sound like a crazy person trying to get his attention.”
Or they may say, “What if I first tried to exchange glances with him, that would turn him off?”
That’s why it can be hard to connect with guys today.
People always doubt themselves or read too in a situation, so they end up not giving that leap of faith.
I guess it’s just one of the pitfalls of modern life – as we become more social online, it’s getting harder and harder for people to create chemistry in the real world!
But as I said, we need to learn the importance of no guess every word or action. To do this, you need to get back to the basics of building a relationship with people.
Breaking this barrier
Considering how defensive people can be, the easiest way to get a boy’s attention during these crucial first moments is to warm him up, little by little.
What do I mean? Well, think about it unpleasant it’s dealing with one of those overly kind salespeople who smiles too easily, as if they’re putting on an artificial mask.
Imagine going into a store and then seeing that person with a look that looks … off.
To avoid looking like this, you’ll need to do this another way. While the lighting of these pearly whites is a good icebreaker, there is one subtle the adjustment that needs to be made.
To get a non-threatening look, don’t just look at that smile as if you’ve turned on a switch and switched to “friendly mode” at a glance.
Instead, try to greet someone with your eyes first, and then let that smile grow on your face, like a flower in bloom.
It’s as easy as that.
The reason this approach works is that it doesn’t feel like you are imposing your good will in another person. Do eye contact and let the moment sink; this will make your reaction to his vision seem more genuine.
Have you ever noticed when you browse some magazines in a store or check out an old photo album and can’t help but smile after seeing something you like?
So it is with people. Give yourself a fraction of the time to stop this pleasure wash yourselfthen let it gradually appear on your face.
That’s the power of nonverbal communication – we all have these subliminal switches in our heads, and it’s really just a matter of applying the right ones.
So the trick is to let it go heat i kindness flower, instead of smiling as if it were a knee reaction. The difference between the two may be less than half a second, but the effect it has on people is HUGE.
It’s like telling someone, “Hello, attractive person … after taking the time to appreciate your smoking look, let me express my gratitude for contemplating such a beautiful creature by giving you this unique and tailor-made smile just for YOU!”
Once you start practicing this simple social habit, it will be much easier for you to connect with men.
Speaking of which, I highly recommend that you learn from it Connection styles. Every guy has his own, and figuring it out will make ALL the dating guesses.
You don’t need a psychology degree to learn this skill; getting started is as easy as CLICK HERE.
Yours, in Perfect Passion,
– Carlos Cavallo
UPDATED ON 9/29/2021
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