So you’re falling in love and that’s great, but is it really love or is it just lust, or do you just have no choice? I get calls and messages from guys all the time saying that they are in love or that they really like a girl. And when I learn the details, it’s almost always the same. The boy has no other choice. He barely knows the girl, doesn’t know how to meet other women, and hasn’t had a date or relationship in a long time.
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In this article, you will learn the following:
- How to distinguish between despair and genuine interest
- Why it is important to have options
- How to make a genuine connection
- The best places to start a conversation
- Confidence = success
Basically, he’s very hungry, or I guess we’re saying, I’m thirsty now. In fact, a long time ago a client of mine came to me and told me that she was in this program because she met a girl and she really liked him. And I said, that’s great. But I was a little confused. I was surprised because I hadn’t heard anything from any girl I was dating. So he met this girl, an approach that went well.
Obviously she had a date with him and now she really liked it. Therefore, it is in this program. He’ll stop meeting other women, won’t he? Well, guess what? Go back to this show next week, and that girl is basically a ghost. After the first date, she no longer responded to her text messages. And a customer recently had a similar occurrence with an instant date and it went really well.
In fact, he ended up returning home because he wanted to introduce his cat to her. But anyway, I think he found the wrong cat and he left and went to work that day and he told me he liked it a lot. Here she is, too, a ghost. She no longer responded to your text messages to set another date.
Now, someone might like it to be a one-way street, but in all of these cases, they’re guys who have no choice but to go out with other girls. They haven’t really chosen this girl because they have no other people to choose from.
But, it is not an option if there is only one option. And even worse, if you don’t know her, if you don’t really know her personality and how good she is, and basically she’s very pretty … she’s very attractive. That’s just lust, isn’t it? You don’t like her at all. You really don’t love him. That comes from the balls, right? This is our natural instinct to gravitate towards someone who is really attractive like that.
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And when you have no other choice but to feel like love. Now, if you go shopping while you’re hungry, everything looks good, right? If you’re in the aisle of the box and there’s a chocolate bar, you know, it probably won’t make you feel good in the end. But for now, you have to satisfy that hunger in some way, right? The same goes for dating.
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You should never settle for less. You settle for any girl if you don’t really have options, if you don’t have someone to choose from, if you don’t have multiple wives, or at least you haven’t gone through multiple options, you could say, Yes, this one stands out from the rest.
Despair almost always leads to bad decisions. And it’s not just despair. Lust also goes into this equation when you are very excited about someone. But don’t confuse it with love or even liking it. Maybe you like it right now, but that doesn’t mean anything to the future, does it? You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.
This happens over time. And you’ll be able to find out if it’s really relationship quality or just short-term quality. Now, loneliness makes it all the worse. If you are alone, it is the same as being hungry and you are trying to fill that void so that you can get rid of this weight of negative feeling. Not a good feeling. I’ve been there before, but don’t fall into this trap. The best thing you can do is expand your options so that you can stop feeling lonely and work on yourself.
Because normally, loneliness is not just about having someone else in your life. That’s a big part of it. But there are usually other personal things as well. So what is the cure for this loneliness and what is the cure for the lack of options that leads to despair? Now, obviously, this care is to be able to meet other women and have the options. When you meet someone who can really start a conversation going somewhere, make a connection and get a date.
And the practical steps to do that, depending on where you start and how shy you are, how much experience you have with women, is basically a start. Start small by saying hello to people as you pass. Just a nice morning in the morning while you are running or walking in the morning, or when you go to work. It doesn’t matter, it just greets people.
Get used to this type of contact. The best time to do this easily is when you have a captive audience, when you’re shopping for something, chatting with the waitress, chatting with the bartender, chatting with the person in the aisle of the box, and it doesn’t have to be that way. a woman.
Just start talking to people, start getting into conversations, and learn from them too. Just follow the superficial stuff. You can start here for sure, but try to find something about them that stands out, try to find some kind of detail. The jewels you can order and ask for. It really doesn’t matter. Don’t think about it too much, but it seems like you’re starting to chat and start learning the whole process of making connections with strangers because that will help you later.
In fact, we meet an attractive woman. You want to start a conversation with her and make a connection, right? Don’t make the mistake of thinking that you will wait until you see that attractive woman start a conversation with her. And everything will go very well because it won’t if you don’t do it regularly yet.
Now, the third thing you can do to get to know women and learn conversational skills and really increase their confidence is to approach them directly. I’ll put a video link in the description below so you can learn more about how to do it.
But basically, you’re getting closer to women. I don’t know exactly why you’re talking to her, and again, check the details in the link in the video below, and that will take you to good places or just a conversation. And that’s okay too. But you will build your confidence only by approaching these women. And of course, you want to do it right. I know for many of you are probably thinking, oh, that would be creepy.
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And yes, no one wants to be creepy, but believe me, it’s not as complicated as you might think. But in any case, the act of approaching people approaching a woman is an important personal developer, a personal developer.
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I think this is a term because I want to use personal developer. As an important personal developer, because you have to overcome your own anxieties and fears of approaching strangers and learn the social skills to do it right so that you can make connections with people, at the very least, not distance them. To summarize, try the following tips:
- Look at how you feel, whether it’s genuine interest or just lust
- Try to make it a commonplace to approach women and have options
- Never seek attention out of desperation
- Increase your confidence
- Learn how to make real connections
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