Why do girls make ghosts? It’s rude, frustrating, and confusing and hurtful. It’s a shame to meet a girl who never responds to your messages, or to have a few conversations with someone who eventually disappears without warning. This blog is not intended to excuse or defend ghosts. It’s an unkind thing to do. However, I will explain why so many women are tempted by ghosts instead of politely telling you that they are not interested. To put it simply: a lot of guys are lice, all of them.
I’ve been called all the insults imaginable on dating platforms (most girls have it). I’ve been called a bitch, a pussy, a bitch, a bitch, etc … for the unforgivable crime of politely rejecting guys I didn’t feel connected to. In my experience, it happens about 50% of the time. Fifty percent of the time. As a woman, I get tired of being called a pussy because I’m not interested in sleeping with anyone. It is much easier to ghost or disparage in order to avoid being called a lot of insults.
I’ll give you a recent example and the inspiration for this blog – I signed up for a dating app yesterday with the intention of deleting it. I’ve been wanting to do this for a long time because I haven’t used it in months, but it’s just one of those things you forget about until your phone starts calling you out of space. Anyway, at least I didn’t go down without explaining myself first. I accidentally passed it in my attempt to press the home button to access my profile settings. I then sent him a message telling him that I had an accident while trying to get rid of the app and apologized. He told me a “silly ass bitch” and some other names I don’t remember. I compared it, deleted the app and forgot about it. Simple enough, right? Oh no … oh no no no no no no.
Fast forward to about 15 minutes later. The bitch found me. He started sending spam to the Contact Me section of my website, inventing various names, and in the course of 7 minutes he had sent me four messages saying “asshole”, a “bubble head”. a “little boy”, a “pussy” and a “dwarf”. Clearly his prose is admirable, and so is his persistence. Over the past 24 hours, 9 messages have been sent to me through my website and have been updated to harass me on Reddit. The insults also went from being pretty funny, if not irritating, to being quite racist … then he started trying to hurt my business by posting on my subreddit stating that I am going bankrupt and something about my parents wearing underwear gross. Yes, I know, his maturity is amazing. Luckily, he’s also a fucking idiot because, even though most of the harassment comes from usable material he has now deleted, he accidentally sent one from his main account. I told him that if he sent me a message again, I would report his account to Reddit. Tbh, I hope they ban your IP.
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