It’s disappointing to find out that a guy you want just wants a one night stand or a connection with you.
Reading guys is hard enough, but the best assurance a girl can have is knowing the signs she just wants to connect with you. That there is no possibility of relationship.
Wouldn’t it save you so much time and so much pain?
Have you ever had a date with a guy and the chemistry is so … YES, girl!
But then there’s that suspicious little voice in the back of your head wondering if maybe you’re just looking for a quick connection.
Some women think there are only 2 types of guys – those who want to connect and those who want the REAL deal.
This is an oversimplification. It’s one of the reasons many women miss out on so many easy-to-fall opportunities to get a real catch.
(And another reason to get your dating advice from a man who knows what men really think. Not a bunch of theories from someone who … hey, he’s not a man.)
Now, of course, it goes without saying that if there is a one night stop ok with you, then, of course, do it. There’s nothing wrong with the occasional adventure, right?
BUT, if you let yourself be turned into a simple booty call for him, you will find that it is much harder to turn that connection into a relationship later.
Do not try to lure the fish with the bait, and then try to put the hook in its mouth.
As my friend JC says, “Oh, NO, he doesn’t play this game, girl.”
If your goal is to harpoon your boy and get him on the boat, you can do it without any tricks or puzzle games. There are many guys looking for a girlfriend and the whole enchilada.
What I’m going to show you here is how to avoid those who ONLY want a night of fun.
Hook-up Only Sign – 1) Calls you regularly at night
Let’s be honest – some guys are just trying out the lottery. They call you at the weird hours of bedtime hoping to catch you in a hot state.
To be fair, sometimes this strategy works.
As the saying goes, even a broken watch is correct twice a day.
But if a guy just calls you to ask if he can come, and it’s always in the weird hours of the afternoon, it’s pretty obvious he’s just trying to try sex.
Also, if it is May has really taken you on a date of any kind, or at least not offered to find you in a place that is not 10 feet from your room or your …
Yes. You know.
One Night Stand Sign – 2) Not really interested in YOU
Surely he is eager for action and his hands are in non-stop scanning mode. In fact, you’re probably very excited about his interest in you.
Women often go blind when a man gets strong and makes her feel powerfully desired.
But unless there is a little intellectual research, where it asks you about your tastes, your dislikes, your favorite movies, your favorite wine, and so on.
If you’re not delving into your life and personality, it’s because you just want to stay afloat.
He no details needed and he’s probably trying to keep some distance to keep things from getting complicated later.
If you’re not asked who you are as a person, you’re probably just looking for one fast action.
He just wants sex – Sign 3) Always on the lookout
She flirts and gets a little cheeky with you, but she also flirts with other women wherever you go? This is a guy who could go out with you, but he won’t settle for more.
And how does he act when he is “trapped”?
If he’s not really focusing on you and flirting with other girls, even when he knows you’re there and you can see what’s going on, it’s him telling you, “I’m not serious.”
Looks like some guys can’t let go of theirs you need to have a demand. Say it ego, say it low self-esteem, call it childish …
Remember, it’s not your job to change it.
Just to find the man who is ready and willing to do anything else. Because this is the only kind of man you can build a real relationship with.
You’re just a friend with benefits – Sign 4) Avoid all these “relationship stuff”
If you’re texting in the morning and you don’t get a response from him, there are usually two possible reasons: He’s one of those guys who doesn’t pay much attention to his phone (maybe he’s really busy) – Or – he’s trying to keep a certain level away with you.
She’s thinking, “Hmmm … if I get into a text conversation with her, I have to pretend she’s really interested in her day. . to be horizontal. I have to keep it simple. “
This “avoid relationship stuff” means almost avoiding all patterns that may indicate that you two are an element.
- – Doesn’t introduce you to relatives or relatives …
- – Don’t introduce yourself to friends …
- – It doesn’t take much, if not …
- – Rarely, if ever, does he initiate contact …
- – You won’t stay up all night hugging and whispering pet names in your ear …
- – I will not add you to social media, this is especially great. Even the connections are usually friendly …
- – There are no long times together, like going on a weekend somewhere …
- – Avoid pet names: there is no “honey” or “sweet” or anything like that. After all, we all know the feeling of an affectionate term. And if you’re just having fun, you’re probably not indulging in the fantasies of a relationship.
- – Another sign may also be if you notice that sex leaves you wanting a little. That’s because he’s not so worried your satisfaction. This is not always true, as most men consider part of their “performance” to be your pleasure.
But if you don’t want to make sure you get yours, this is one clear signal of BOOT CALL. After all, in a love affair, you both want to be happy.
You’re His Booty Call – Sign 5) He tells you directly.
If she tells you she just likes fun times, and says she’s not in a relationship right now, she’s probably giving you all the clues you need.
Especially if he refers to you as a “friend with benefits” or any other term, joking or not.
You may even be open to seeing other people. There is a good chance that he will be inclined to insinuate or tell you to do so do not do it get some wild idea about wanting more from him.
Sometimes the obvious is too obvious to ignore.
Look, all you have to do is get your emotions out of the way and look at things with a cold critical eye.
As much as you like a guy and you want him to, that’s it It is not enough so that it feels the same for you.
Very often we are convinced that if the other person only knew how we feel about her, or the depth of our love, she would somehow make the spontaneous decision to feel attracted to and fall in love with us in the long run.
I’m sorry … it doesn’t work that way.
If you really want more than one relationship, you have to put up with a man who can give it to you. Find the strength within yourself to do what needs to be done.
Sometimes this is getting away from a guy you think is “perfect” in every way.
Don’t ignore the signs that you just don’t care so much.
Yes, men can have sex without love or bond, and then move on as if nothing had happened. That it doesn’t it means they are bad or bad or even “dogs”.
On the other hand, there are guys who are just looking for a connection. And, and that’s huge, just because you’re looking for a connection doesn’t mean you’re not open to MORE than that.
If you’re younger and obviously in your bachelor life having fun and sexual adventures, Let it go. It’s probably not worth saving.
But if he’s a guy who has a past being able commit, perhaps with a little monogamy in series, that you might be interested in staying a while longer and seeing where this thing goes.
But acknowledge that you are taking a calculated risk! He owes you nothing for your devotion or patience.
If you choose this path – and many women do, and they succeed – you can’t be bitter if it doesn’t work out. Especially if you have communicated the desire to be single or free of obstacles with a relationship.
Remember that your desire not to be in a relationship is part of what you can leads you want your commitment.
That thrill of having what you can’t have. So be prepared for this and know that you may not even want to have a relationship with him.
Its scarcity may be provoking your desire to conquer it.
But what if you could turn a boy around and make him feel this scarcity? Then he would be the one to chase you and conquer you.
What if you could turn this guy into a potential to engage someone who wants to walk the nine feet with you?
To some women, getting a boy out of the “Friends with Advantages” area seems like an impossible feat. However, this free presentation I just put together says the opposite.
Pushing a guy by the edge and into your arms is completely doable. As long as you know how to activate your irresistible desire, that is.
Watch my video here for more information.
UPDATED ON 10/6/2021
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