Learn the 13 shocking signs that only sex wants, so you know what to look for to dodge men like this. It’s obvious when you know what to look for.
What if he just wants to sleep with you?
Are there any indications that he only wants sex? Why do men lie to get it? If you’re not interested in more than one date, why lie and tell them you like them or act like they like you?
Why are they talking about future vacations together and talking about going out, after “ghost after being out with you for 2 months”? Is it so hard for a man to act normally?
If a man is only interested in sex, why not act like that? Do guys ever think about being honest? I’m starting to wonder if women should literally ask men, “Okay, are you really interested in me?”
Please help me understand why I often have a broken heart and feel very sad and very confused.
Chicago Nath “
Understand men and their games
You have asked many good questions, and I will answer each one, so that you may understand what happens to men. I know this can be emotionally overwhelming, but there is a way to recognize a player faster. Once you know how to spot them, you can easily avoid these predators.
One of the problems is that as a simple woman looking for love, you want to trust and believe in men. However, one disappointment and one disaffection after another make it more and more difficult.
I understand how you feel and I went through it myself when I was dating. While looking for love, I spent too much time trying to figure it out.
However, encountering many of these types, I LEARNED to understand quickly and figured out how to stop wasting time with a man who was showing signs that he only wants sex. This kept my heart free to meet other men who had more potential.
And now I will share this secret with you!
Why do men lie and act interested?
First of all, keep in mind that not all men lie or pretend to be interested. Let’s think about it from a man’s perspective to better understand what’s really going on.
Sit back and think for a moment. If a man just wants sex and he tells you, would you go? No, of course not! Men know that most women will not jump in bed. Many prefer to meet a boy for the first time.
That’s exactly why if she just wants sex, she’ll lie to get it. Men do it to meet their needs in the only way they know how. The same goes for talking about the future and the holidays, and so on.
This kind of conversation is designed to make a man look like he has long-term intentions about you, so you trust him and then … you sleep with him.
Why do men make ghosts?
Most men hate emotional scenes and will do whatever it takes to avoid a big bang. That’s why they stop contacting you (also known as a ghost) instead of being honest, direct, or just breaking up.
This is nothing new and this has always been the case. Many guys don’t want to cause you face-to-face pain, but they know they have to move on, so they disappear from sight and disappear.
Some experts say men are cowards to avoid confrontation. However, another way of looking at it is that they have a different threshold for emotional pain compared to women.
That’s why most men would rather close a difficult conversation or leave than talk about it.
Confrontation is often too much for a man. And this is a way of knowing that you have found a good man, when he is willing to discuss things calmly. It is often a sure sign that you are seeing a good man with real relationship potential.
Can I ask if I like it?
Last but not least, don’t ask a man directly if you like him. Especially in the first few weeks. Why not? How will you know if he is telling the truth? It’s a pointless question. This is a confrontational question that is sure to make you uncomfortable, even if you like it.
Direct questions are not the way to relate to a man you just dated. This won’t work either when you ask him if he wants to stop seeing you; he will say yes only to avoid bad feelings.
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The real problem
That’s the real problem: THESE ARE NOT THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! Even if you want to know if a man is lying and the signs that he only wants sex, this is not the way to make your decision. You can’t make up your mind about sleeping with him.
Instead of worrying if you just want sex, the best thing to do is find out whether to QUALIFY to be YOUR man.
Is he constantly chasing you? In other words, does it ask you on weekly dates, call between dates, and send text messages to keep you in touch? Is he really interested in meeting you or is he just talking about himself? Try to like it and find out what you like?
These are signs to consider for a man who has a genuine and potential interest in a love affair. Get more clues that you have found a guardian.
When a man constantly asks you, shows that he cares, does good things for you, keeps in touch, and becomes someone you can count on, then you know he is worthy of your love and affection.
How to spot signs you just want sex
Here are the 13 signs you just want sex:
- Talk about your appearance from the moment you meet.
- He raises sex during the first dates.
- He is super flirtatious, very charming and looks like a player.
- He wants sex and asks for photos.
- It only communicates (text, email, phone) when you want a booty call.
- He says he’s not looking for a relationship, but he’ll get to know you.
- You don’t date and you have sex every time you see him.
- He has excuses for not being able to spend time with your friends.
- The night never passes.
- He’s angry if you don’t jump in the sack.
- Not much for previous games.
- You don’t know much about him and your conversations are superficial.
- You haven’t met his friends.
These are the signs that he just wants sex
Now do you see signs that you just want sex? If you see more than one of these 13 signs, accept the fact that this guy only likes you for sex.
And now that you know these 13 signs, be smart and heed this warning.
There is nothing wrong with casual sex, if you don’t mind, protect yourself and agree to participate.
It can be fun, you can learn something new and it’s a great stress reliever. But keep your eyes open and be smart to protect your heart.
One more thing. If you start a sexual relationship or try “Friends with benefits”, that doesn’t mean it’s common, available when you want it, or that one day they’ll fall in love with you. This is a fairy tale, so don’t go there or you might end up with a broken heart.
On the other hand, if you’re looking for something more serious and lasting, wait for sex until you determine if it qualifies as your romantic partner and meets your standards.
This is how you value yourself and don’t get caught up in casual relationships, dreaming of something else.
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