Looking for tips on Bumble’s profile? Get my top 10 tips to help you make the most of your efforts in this women’s app.
Dating app recommendations
I recommend Bumble as the best dating app for women and Match.com to my clients who want to find love seriously.
Most dating tips also apply to Match.com, with the exception of the length of your profile, which should be very short and concise in Bumble.
My customers say Hinge is another good app even though you won’t have as many prospects. Some have used Tinder, but it’s certainly more of a pickup tool than Bumble according to the women I’m talking to.
There’s also the League, but that deviates much younger and I’m a little wary of how many people are in your database. My older clients have not been lucky with this.
When it comes to online dating sites, Match is by far the largest in the US. Forget about free sites – get what you pay for. Depending on where you live, EliteSingles can be a great resource – popular in Europe and Australia.
10 Bumble Tips for Women
Whether you’re new to the app or have been using it for a while, here are some good Bumble profile tips and other strategies that are sure to help.
1) Write a prominent profile
Be specific about yourself, even if you don’t have much space. If you like wine, say chardonnay or Cote de Rhone. You’ll get more attention with a few prominent details than the same white things everyone says like dinner out or movies.
Don’t just talk about what you like to do, but who you are. One of my best tips on Bumble’s profile is to answer this question … “Am I the kind of person who …?” This will get you started.
When you have finished writing, remove all additional words to fit. Perfect phrases are not necessary for Bumble and you only get 300 characters that include punctuation and spaces!
2) Post photos of yourself
Bumble is about YOU. Not your children, friends, family or pets. Keep these photos focused on you. I’ve heard a lot of comments that men deviate from when you include other women in your photos.
Five photos is enough and with so many, it’s okay to show you one with sunglasses. You have others who fight your eyes, who are really the window of your soul.
3) Choose great clothes for your photo
Here’s another essential Bumble profile tip. Bring something dated! What would you put on for dinner on a fifth date with a guy who excites you?
Choose something that makes you feel fabulous. This is the kind of photo you need. When you feel good about yourself, this can be seen in your photo.
If you’re not sure what you’re looking for or are looking your best, ask a fashion friend for help. Try on different outfits and have fun.
You only have one chance to make your first impression online and a picture is worth a thousand words as they say, so take your time to do it right. Definitely at the top of the list of Bumble tips for women.
4) Posing for photos
Yes, there is a position that all women should try. It’s a three-quarter vision. Stand with one shoulder away from the camera and the other facing it. You are standing at an angle but your face is directly on the camera.
This allows you to turn your neck a little and look your best. Put your weight on your back leg which will make you look more curved! It’s a winning stance every time.
One of my favorite Bumble profile tips!
5) Start the conversation
In Bumble, the woman has to start the conversation. This is because a woman working on Tinder was not happy with the way things were handled, so she started the app to give benefits and more control to women.
Ask for something fun! As for Bumble’s profile tips, pay close attention to them. Check out their profile and ask about their passions or hobbies. Open-ended questions create a conversation because you can’t just say yes or no.
The best thing to do is to ask about something that you both enjoy. For example, if you both enjoy skiing, ask them what their favorite ski resort is. If you both enjoy hiking, ask yourself, “What is the best hike you’ve done lately?”
6) Men’s messages
Avoid saying you have a lot in common; he is the one who decides and they are empty words. Don’t ask questions that will surely get you a simple answer, “OK.” For example, “How’s the week going?” you will probably get a “good” answer, and then there will be no other conversation.
Also, try not to qualify it as a proper appointment. Questions like, “How long have you been divorced?” it is better to ask later after meeting.
Instead, try to get a good exchange. You can ask these difficult questions later in the process. Remember that he is adjusting to you too, so make it fun and attractive so he can see that you are more attractive than most women who don’t.
7) Respond in 24 hours
We live in an instantaneous world. If you don’t answer on the same day, other women will. Don’t miss out on reviewing your posts.
If you’re interested in finding lasting love, check your matches and messages daily, and if you’re interested, get in touch quickly with the guys who send you messages. You don’t have to jump in minutes, but don’t let more than one day go by.
For men who don’t make the cut, just remove them. Don’t answer that you’re not interested or that you’re not a good partner. Men fine this insult, even if it was not your intention.
8) Local Date
While you may be tempted to open up your wider circle, what makes life easier is going out with local men. It’s easier to find a time to get together and it takes less time to get together.
Men who are geographically distant will find it harder to see or be spontaneous. Look first local. You can always expand your search later if necessary. While this isn’t one of Bumble’s profile tips, it’s a good dating tip for any app you use.
9) Give men a chance
Most men in the app will not be right for you. I speak like 95% of them, so expect and accept this from the beginning. Don’t find out how all the wrong men get in touch with you and why they don’t read.
This is a waste of your energy and will drag your atmosphere on the dates. Just delete and continue to find the vouchers in your inbox.
You need to know a good number of potential customers, so ordering your options is an important step. You can’t know it just by a photo and a profile – you have to meet some of the men to know for sure.
Often a man will surprise you and be better than you thought, while some guy you feel was safe ends up being a mistake. It gives men a chance and this in turn gives you the best chance of finding a good match.
10) Having a date with more than one man
Women are often tempted to focus on a man who looks like a good prospect. The problem is, you can connect quickly. Then, when things don’t work out, you’re disappointed, with a broken heart, and you need time to recover. Ugh!
You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.
This is how you end up with the wrong man, because you have invested emotionally before you are sure of your compatibility.
A powerful strategy to avoid falling out of love with every guy
An essential dating strategy beyond Bumble profile tips is to date more than one guy at a time. This prevents it from sticking prematurely.
Remember that the purpose of dating is to determine who is worth having a relationship with. The dating process comes first, followed by the relationship. Having a few dates with a guy is NOT about having a relationship with him.
Another problem is that you never know who will stay or ask you again. That’s why going out with more than one man keeps you active and eliminates the need to recover, because other men ask you to go out.
When looking for love, he often went out with 3 men at a time. Rarely was there a problem because most men become ghosts quickly anyway and never get past the first meeting (date zero).
Following this strategy kept me from feeling heartbroken after each boy disappeared and fell to the ground.
My last dating tip for this concern is to thank every man who ghosts quickly so as not to waste any more time. Do not communicate this to men, it is only in your mind and heart.
Bumble Profile Tips
So here are 10 tips for Bumble or other dating sites or apps to help you have a prominent profile, great photos, and sound dating strategies to help you get the most out of these dating tools modern.
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